The only male student at a Catholic girls’ school.
Jeremy was the only male student at his Catholic girls’ school.
He had short spiky hair, hated wearing the school’s checked skirt and in Year 12, the Avila College student came out as a transgender male.
“It was inherently a very gendered environment. It made it more difficult.”
It’s a situation many single-sex schools – whose entire existence has relied on rigid concepts of gender – are grappling with.
For the first time, the region’s peak body for girls schools, the Alliance of Girls Schools Australasia, is urging its members to support transgender students.
This includes males who transition to females and want to enrol in girls’ schools, and females who transition to males and want to remain in girls’ schools.
Earlier this week, the organisation, which predominantly represents private girls’ schools, held a conference which focused on gender and transgender issues.
“It’s an emerging issue, everyone is still learning what to do and that includes the doctors, the psychologists, the support services,” the Alliance’s president and Mentone Girls’ Grammar principal Fran Reddan said.
“It’s critical that we provide a safe environment where all students can express their gender identity.”
Micah Scott, the chief executive of LGBTI youth group Minus 18, said single-sex schools faced a unique challenge.
“Their existence is based on the concept that the sex you are assigned at birth will match your gender identity,” he said.
He said teachers needed to avoid gendered language like “good morning girls” and should provide more flexible uniform options.
Jeremy agreed, and said he felt very uncomfortable wearing his school uniform.
“A teacher told me that I could wear the trousers but said everyone would look at me funnily,” he said. He claimed another teacher picked on him.
Human Rights Law Centre director of advocacy Anna Brown said there did not seem to be a clear protection for transgender students in single-sex schools under federal discrimination law. But she said it was a grey area and yet to be tested in court.
She said schools should let transgender students wear uniforms and use toilets that reflected their gender identity. They should also ensure that sports divided along gender lines are inclusive, and that students are referred to using the name and pronoun of their choice.